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ZuLoGi

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  1. She's pretty hot, but I prefer more a cuter look like bouncing tities rachel.
  2. She better be worth it if they end up divorcing!
  3. +1 Assman. You're very much setting yourself for 3 babies!
  4. You are absolutely correct. I'm actually ashasmed about making such demeaning posting pointing towards hatred. I'll need time to reflect on myself and the relationship in general. Sorry guys, this would be my last post for this thread.
  5. 1. Infidelity is a deal breaker. There is only one solution. 2. Anyways, I've treated her right from the beginning which she loved about me. End of the day, we were actually very different people who made it work - I guess both of us were putting on a show when it wasn't meant to be?. There are just a few red flags, which you can google anyways. Maybe she was under the impression that I was like her weak ex boyfriend who would come back crying for her love since she could abuse our trust. 3. Very much depends on the girl. My ex was like one of the boys, never hangedout with new guys and always called me after she had hanged out without me even asking. She was outgoing with a lot of gay friends. I wouldn't mind to be honest because trust is the major factor. Once the trust has been damaged, there's no working it out.
  6. Absolutely. I didn't have much money at the start, but saw me grew. I guess she wasn't patient enough to see it through. I won't ponder my mind on this matter anymore. Thank you again for your input. Time to get hunting.
  7. I have always been open about her hanging out with one of her ex or guy friends that I have met in Australia. I've never had a problem as she has always updated me (without my request) and I'm not the type who restricts their partner freedom. I guess while she had gone overseas for 5 weeks, everytime I tried to contact her she'd get angry or push me off the phone (but relatives also had the same issues). I don't really know whether to give benefit of the doubt OR guarantee myself being made a fool. I've closed all ties and I'll see if she does come running back (I can tell she still loves me) with honest answers, as she doesn't see what she did was wrong. Maybe I'm just the back-up guy, but I do have a lot of better qualities then the other chap e.g. looks and success.
  8. I agree. I've decided to take some time off to get back to my old self. Gosh its been a long time... I'm 24 and she's 26. To be honest the thing that is mind boggling is that she has never lied to me throughout our relationship. This may be the biggest regret of my life if she was honest or the biggest opportunity to thrive personally. I've thrown in the towel anyways, I can't be with someone who doesn't respect me.
  9. I found compelling evidence (Facebook, emails) during her holiday and apparently one of the guy from her group of friends was her ex boyfriend (they dated back in year 7 and even though they haven't spoken for10 years). I've always trusted her and I guess I have always been the best partner I could be - education, career and money. It's hard to get straight answers as her body language seems legit. End of the day, I found she is still chating to this guy when she came back. I've dodged a bullet, but I also feel as though we are two different people. I certain she is torn between us two, but its better for me to leave. Why be the back up boy eh?
  10. A little depressed here, but also looking for words of wisdom from older LP members. I recently broke up from a 4 year relationship with a girl who I believe cheated one me after taking an overseas trip (couldn't handle carrying the relationship forwarded without trust on my personal behalf). I was somewhat relieved to be honest, because I wasn't really that into her. I stayed for the 'safety' as she has always wanted my attention, broke down in tears when breaking up etc.... I guess in the end, I decided to give her my all and tables turned. Anyways I'm going to keep looking for that one girl. Do most members here stay with their partner because it is safe (they love you more than you love them and have attritubes which beneficial long-term - good cook, clean, educated etc...)? Or do us men take the risks and try to tame?
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