Need advice on having relationships with potentially crazy women

I am 26 and have always been careful or may be distant is a good word in my relationships.. I think it was probably the same thing Matt Daemon had in Good Will Hunting - fear of opening up feeling that the girl might feel she can do better than me. I am more or less over it due to some mental breakthroughs now. I hear often crazy women make for some fun times, but I've also saw crazy women almost destroy friend's lives.. yet there are some women who are crazy but you can still deal with them and cut it off without losing an eye or having to buy a new car...no?

 

I ask because I find myself in an interesting situation with 2:

 

 

There is a Russian girl who had liked me for awhile, 24, she thinks we have a lot in common, and she looks like Lindsey Lohan, only real everything and she used to be a gymnast. She likes to post stuff about how happy she is or "be happy" self motivating pictures that scream "I need to be happier" which is not a good sign.

 

 

The other one is 22 latina girl from Venezuela. Plays it as if she is a good girl yet tells me she can give me everything I want and more.. I am always honest with women which puts me both at an advantage as well as giving me a "fair" out later - as in "Look I told you what I was looking for and you said you were on the same page" In this case I stated I wasn't looking for a girlfriend but a person I like hanging out with and hook up 2-3 times a week to which she replied "Perfect that's what I am looking for as well right now" But my gut tells me she is into me hard, and women always think they can change the situation later... I think it might turn ugly

 

 

I had a latina girl before and she had a baby which was an easier situation since I was man #2 in her life...

 

 

 

So to those of those who have dealt with something similar, had gone with girls who you thought might be trouble.. was it hard to break it off, would you recommend it, what would you do differently? What are the definitely "watch out!!" signs?

 

 

Thank you.

All bitches be crazy. Just go with the one who is least crazy.

I'm pretty good at not getting into relationships with these types of women....anymore.

 

I just started seeing a girl who is starting to show some signs, so I know it's a matter of time before it's off.

 

Life is too short to have an unideal mate.

I had a friend once give me this advice: Russian women are very beautiful, but they'll cut your heart out.

 

That said, all women under 25 (maybe even 30) are nutty. Just have fun and don't take them too seriously.

I'm currently in the middle of crazy land my self, so I have no advice!

 

But I will surely listen to all advice u get!

Why would you want to be in a relationship with a crazy person?

 

You want my advice? Don't!

Why would you want to be in a relationship with a crazy person?

 

You want my advice? Don't!

haha you beat me to it.

Get rid of them as soon as possible after you realize they are crazy.

Why would you want to be in a relationship with a crazy person?

 

You want my advice? Don't!

 

 

It's not really what I am asking.. I guess the question is: Can one manage some craziness and get out unscathed? Or should I look for trouble free ones only. Plus I am sure there are people who are looking and saying "who said these girls are crazy, may be they are just girls"

 

I am not hooking up with tattooed 9 piercings strippers/porn stars.. just girls I'd say who are really passionate about the person they are with..

It's not really what I am asking.. I guess the question is: Can one manage some craziness and get out unscathed? Or should I look for trouble free ones only. Plus I am sure there are people who are looking and saying "who said these girls are crazy, may be they are just girls"

 

I am not hooking up with tattooed 9 piercings strippers/porn stars.. just girls I'd say who are really passionate about the person they are with..

 

Get with the one you like the most and can see having more fun with. If you feel unhappy break whatever you have going off, you can always get out unscathed with crazy ones because you move onto the next one!

All bitches be crazy. Just go with the one who is least crazy.

 

IT's true, they all are crazy. For long term girl, pick the one who's crazy you can deal with the longest.

I am not hooking up with tattooed 9 piercings strippers/porn stars.. just girls I'd say who are really passionate about the person they are with..

 

Replace the word 'passionate' with the word jealous and you have your answer... run...

 

A friend of mine always says... "There are 2 kinds of women, crazy and fcuking crazy. You better hurry up because there aren't many crazy women left."

It's not really what I am asking.. I guess the question is: Can one manage some craziness and get out unscathed? Or should I look for trouble free ones only. Plus I am sure there are people who are looking and saying "who said these girls are crazy, may be they are just girls"

 

I am not hooking up with tattooed 9 piercings strippers/porn stars.. just girls I'd say who are really passionate about the person they are with..

 

 

I don't really get your problem. What's your definition of crazy? Have they stabbed someone recently?

 

If you're going to go around leading someone on, you're asking for trouble and bad karma.. (even if you think you're being smart by being truthful -- women dont buy that shit.. truth = he's into me)

Replace the word 'passionate' with the word jealous and you have your answer... run...

 

A friend of mine always says... "There are 2 kinds of women, crazy and fcuking crazy. You better hurry up because there aren't many crazy women left."

 

 

LOL

 

 

Yeah even the most level headed ones I've had were strange in some ways.. I guess all that estrogen and hormones make you that way. I suppose finding the "crazy" you can put up with is the real key indeed

 

 

 

 

I don't really get your problem. What's your definition of crazy? Have they stabbed someone recently?

 

If you're going to go around leading someone on, you're asking for trouble and bad karma.. (even if you think you're being smart by being truthful -- women dont buy that shit.. truth = he's into me)

 

 

Huh? How is that leading someone on when I tell them I want to see them 2-3 times a week? Do I have to also handwrite "we probably won't be more than that from where I stand'

 

 

That's the thing - I don't have too much experience with crazy because I've been lucky and picky... and I also learned from friend's boatload of crazy stories

 

One girl called my best friend 5-10 times every day for SIX MONTHS after he broke up with her.

 

 

One buddy's ex came back to his house, made his neighbors call him since he wasn't opening the door fearing it was her.. he opened thinking it was neighbors it was her with flowers... She also said she can't physically have kids and now they have a 3 year old.. More than once I've seen his car almost swerve off road because she would start jumping on him and beating him in the car because he wouldn't listen to spanish music like she did.

 

 

stuff like that = WHOA.. I don't need that shit

 

 

That's why i am saying - how do I know if a girl is "little obsessive crazy, but you can break it off ok" vs "Comes back stabs you and your next girl" crazy?

 

 

I re-read my original post thinking I might not have been clear..but this is exactly what I asked?

 

 

So to those of those who have dealt with something similar, had gone with girls who you thought might be trouble.. was it hard to break it off, would you recommend it, what would you do differently? What are the definitely "watch out!!" signs?

 

 

Why would you want to be in a relationship with a crazy person?

 

You want my advice? Don't!

:iamwithstupid:

 

Run dont walk! I can share with you countless stories of psycho bitch stories that will blow you away.

Ironically, I was on the phone with a buddy today for over 2 hours counseling on what to do, pretty pathetic site.

 

The wrong girl will destroy your life and will laugh about it when it is all said and done with.

 

Becareful who you stick your dick in, especially if you have any type of assets.

 

 

:iamwithstupid:

 

Run dont walk! I can share with you countless stories of psycho bitch stories that will blow you away.

Ironically, I was on the phone with a buddy today for over 2 hours counseling on what to do, pretty pathetic site.

 

The wrong girl will destroy your life and will laugh about it when it is all said and done with.

 

Becareful who you stick your dick in, especially if you have any type of assets.

 

 

So how do you choose?

 

 

 

 

My friend alerted me to a saying in the film H.E.A.T. by Tom Sizemore.

When they are planning the big job they know the police are watching them and they are weighing up the job and when asked if he is in he responds...

 

"It's the juice. The juice is the action".

 

This kind of stuck with me because this same friend was going out with this batshit crazy girl who he nicknamed the "The Juice". He knew the crazy was there, he knew trouble was present, the task was filled with problems but stilll goes ahead with it. Sometimes the juice is worth it, sometimes it can make you bitter.

Sorry, but what is your goal here? You are trying to sleep with them without letting them get too into you, or... ?

 

If what you're asking is, is it advisable to get into a relationship with someone you think is kinda crazy and might want to break up with, then my answer if you should avoid it and it has nothing to do with how crazy they are. You should avoid any serious relationship in which worry about what breaking up is going to be like. Why on Earth would you want to be in a relationship in which you think there is a good chance you'll break up? Sounds like the relationship is failed from the start and shouldn't exist in the first place.

 

Stay doing what you're doing until you meet someone that you want around. There are benefits of being in a relationship, but none of them exist if you don't actually have any significant feelings for them.

 

Breaking it off with anyone is easy. There is a very slim chance she'll firebomb your house. Ignore her calls, emails, and everything else. Ignore someone and eventually go away. If you want to break it off and it becomes a problem, then you're the problem. Ignore, ignore, ignore and all is well. If you don't care about someone, then it shouldn't be a problem.

Rawr, are you looking for wife material out of either of these girls?

If you're looking for a fling then crazy is what you want, and then post up in the other thread lol.

If it's long term/possible wife material you don't want any doubts about what you are about to get yourself in to, but this again depends what you are after about said proposed relationship.

No wives. May be something a few months out.

 

Brian, I am trying to do friends with benefits while I look for a gf type.

 

 

 

It could be I just heard too many bad stories - of false accusations of beatings, rape, pregnancy etc.. probably left a mark on the psyche. Good news is these girls seem a lot more sane than the above.. I am going to ease into it and look for the signs if I see them I'll pour some ice water in my pants and get out, no matter how hot and ready she is...

Protect against the crazy... use google voice and hide your actual phone number. Much easier and safer if you ever have to pull the rip cord and get some distance from the crazy without inconveniencing yourself with changing or blocking #'s.

The short & simple answer:

 

When in doubt --- ditch. Plenty of fishes in the ocean.

fcuking run

The short & simple answer:

 

When in doubt --- ditch. Plenty of fishes in the ocean.

Bingo. ^^^

if they don't start out crazy.....they end up crazy.

 

each one is a time bomb. you don't know when, you don't why, they just blow.