Need advice on having relationships with potentially crazy women

These creatures you speak of have been on this planet for as long as us men have, and to this day we have not figured them out. Just keep your distance at ALL times. Shit has happened to topcarbon above which hits us like a brick out of nowhere, so just be careful whatever you decide to do!

Thanks guys, appreciate all the replies. I will tread very carefully with the more sane one and see if I am mistaken or not... I think I will not sleep with her for awhile testing the water and if it seems way too hot I am out like Donald Sterling at a charity event

Life is too short to have an unideal mate.

I have unideal mate but i have no idea how to get the ideal... or where to find it...is life too short to find ideal too?

I have unideal mate but i have no idea how to get the ideal... or where to find it...is life too short to find ideal too?

 

 

I think you find this when you find out who you are really... life is all about the journey to find who you truly are, and as you progress along your world changes for the better because you make it suit you better

If you have to ask the questions of "is she crazy" or "can I see myself with her [insert time period here] down the road", chances are you should move along.

 

This is one of those instances where this phrase comes into play - If you play stupid games, you win stupid prizes.

 

Like messing around with a crazy woman, and then not being able to get rid of her for the next 20 years because she is the mom to your kid.....

I think you find this when you find out who you are really... life is all about the journey to find who you truly are, and as you progress along your world changes for the better because you make it suit you better

 

1000% true! That's how I have wondered it being by my self too.

So according to men, all women are crazy, and according to the women, the men are not suitable: http://newsfeed.time.com/2011/05/03/superm...est-comic-book/

So according to men, all women are crazy, and according to the women, the men are not suitable: http://newsfeed.time.com/2011/05/03/superm...est-comic-book/

sounds about right.

All women are crazy, just some are more crazy than others and some hide it better than others.

 

 

 

Hang out with any woman for long enough and eventually they will act stark raving bonkers at some point, it may last it or it may not, dependant how crazy they are.

I have unideal mate but i have no idea how to get the ideal... or where to find it...is life too short to find ideal too?

 

rmtn stop flipping them upside down maybe that's when they go crazy

 

Rawr what's this my friend the Oprah Winfrey Show?

All women are crazy, just some are more crazy than others and some hide it better than others.

 

 

 

Hang out with any woman for long enough and eventually they will act stark raving bonkers at some point, it may last it or it may not, dependant how crazy they are.

 

 

by that logic and using the advice in this thread from some people, it looks like I'd be spending all my "women" time on pornosites...

 

See, I think crazy is inevitable, but could be managed or there is crazy you can live with... like she is obsessed with something that doesn't bother me, or even better something I like..

My ex wife was crazy.

 

EX.

 

WIFE.

 

..........................EX. DIVORCE. MONEY SPENT AND LEGAL STUFF.

 

EX WIFE.

 

If your gut is going "I wonder if this is a good idea or a bad idea." then there's likely a reason. When the time comes and you meet the right woman, you'll know.

Don't be concerned with crazy. It just means you need to put more work into the relationship and thus, it is more rewarding.

 

 

I married crazy 15 years ago.

 

I got divorced after wanting to scratch my eyes out and jam rabid earwigs into my ears daily. She took half my stuff. I continue to give her half my paycheck.

 

 

Wait, my advice up top sucks. Don't listen to that advice at all.

See, you guys married them - that's the problem!!!!!

 

Unless I am kidnapped drugged and asleep I don't see myself anywhere near a wedding chapel!

See, you guys married them - that's the problem!!!!!

 

 

 

We didn't start off married to them.

 

But no one cared enough about us to tell us to get our heads out of our asses and get the hell away from the crazy chicks until it was too late.

 

 

Tough love brother, tough love.

:iamwithstupid:

 

Run dont walk! I can share with you countless stories of psycho bitch stories that will blow you away.

Ironically, I was on the phone with a buddy today for over 2 hours counseling on what to do, pretty pathetic site.

 

The wrong girl will destroy your life and will laugh about it when it is all said and done with.

 

Becareful who you stick your dick in, especially if you have any type of assets.

 

 

I was on the phone with my best friend today for almost an hour trying to untangle this twisted mess of a girlfriend he has latched on to.......

 

Listen to what AKACartman said, write it down and remember it.....the last sentence for sure!

 

AKACArtman......You sir are a very wise man.......

Bro short term non committal relationships are ALWAYS going to put you in the realm of "the crazy chick". Just manage it and determine which wont cause the most amount of damage, pain and grief to you if you break up or are caught out with another chick.

If your gut is going "I wonder if this is a good idea or a bad idea." then there's likely a reason. When the time comes and you meet the right woman, you'll know.

 

I've heard this many times and while I haven't fallen in love with one yet, I'm pretty sure I get it.

 

I once dated a woman who had what I considered to be marriage material type personality and values. Unfortunately my attraction to her just wasn't quite there, and I ended it.....sadly I struggle to be attracted to the more plain jane types.

 

Heads and shoulders above every other woman I dated before and since (5 years now). I felt appreciated and masculine like I've never been before. She really cared about me and my life, my interests.....the first girl I've ever met that it wasn't all about her (or at least in comparison to others). She was thoughtful, submissive, the whole 9. If I had something important to do but was thinking of cancelling for her, she'd tell me not too.

 

Insisted on paying for things on occasion. I love being the provider type but I feel annoyed deep down when women expect you to provide everything for them (and then some) or you're not "enough". Even if I made $5 million/year, I think I'd still be annoyed on some level by this behavior in a mate.

 

I couldn't believe what I was seeing....I still think about her from time to time when considering women as potential mates and most just fail when compared to that high standard.

 

Maybe I did a bad thing passing on her.

Bro short term non committal relationships are ALWAYS going to put you in the realm of "the crazy chick". Just manage it and determine which wont cause the most amount of damage, pain and grief to you if you break up or are caught out with another chick.

 

 

My boy with the truth! Nice.

 

All of my ex wives had the same name....Respondent. Someone here said it right, they all end up crazy. The problem here isn't that you're trying to figure out IF the girl is crazy, you're trying to bring mature thoughts with intellect into something that is too young to grasp the concept of "being the right person". Women in their twenties will be NOTHING like that when they approach their thirties....either their maternal time bomb is ticking rapidly or they've had a kid or two when they were WAY too young to do so and now they want to PARTY like a rock star...either way, it's a rough ride.

 

I've found I make a better single person than I do a married one....Stick with the basics and you really can't go wrong....basics like ALWAYS go to HER house and do NOT bring her to yours, there's no reason a twenty something girl with the potential for a psychotic episode needs to know where you live! Talk about inviting drama into your life.

 

The simplest rule always applies here...what you do in the beginning of the relationship is what you'll have to do for the ENTIRE relationship. So if you're being Mr nice guy all the time....guess what, now you have to be that guy all the time. Buying gifts....oh yeah, wait until you stop doing that and get the "you don't even buy me flowers anymore" speech, filled with tears and sometimes objects being thrown at your head.

 

Bottom line, everyone has said it best....if you have to ask if she's crazy....she IS CRAZY and find a new girl to play with. But at your age, you shouldn't even be thinking about locking down for the long term if there is no reason to. You'll know when the right one comes along.

Yadda Yadda Yadda

 

DO IT

 

Crazy women always great in bed, question is it worth it?

 

Stay focused, stay for a short time not a long time, do not get attached emotionally, keep your wits about you and you will be fine.

 

 

Oh and Videos they like to take lots of videos ha ha ha ha

 

Just FYI

I am 26 and have always been careful or may be distant is a good word in my relationships.. I think it was probably the same thing Matt Daemon had in Good Will Hunting - fear of opening up feeling that the girl might feel she can do better than me. I am more or less over it due to some mental breakthroughs now. I hear often crazy women make for some fun times, but I've also saw crazy women almost destroy friend's lives.. yet there are some women who are crazy but you can still deal with them and cut it off without losing an eye or having to buy a new car...no?

 

I ask because I find myself in an interesting situation with 2:

 

 

There is a Russian girl who had liked me for awhile, 24, she thinks we have a lot in common, and she looks like Lindsey Lohan, only real everything and she used to be a gymnast. She likes to post stuff about how happy she is or "be happy" self motivating pictures that scream "I need to be happier" which is not a good sign.

 

 

The other one is 22 latina girl from Venezuela. Plays it as if she is a good girl yet tells me she can give me everything I want and more.. I am always honest with women which puts me both at an advantage as well as giving me a "fair" out later - as in "Look I told you what I was looking for and you said you were on the same page" In this case I stated I wasn't looking for a girlfriend but a person I like hanging out with and hook up 2-3 times a week to which she replied "Perfect that's what I am looking for as well right now" But my gut tells me she is into me hard, and women always think they can change the situation later... I think it might turn ugly

 

 

I had a latina girl before and she had a baby which was an easier situation since I was man #2 in her life...

 

 

 

So to those of those who have dealt with something similar, had gone with girls who you thought might be trouble.. was it hard to break it off, would you recommend it, what would you do differently? What are the definitely "watch out!!" signs?

 

 

Thank you.

 

 

If they're not somewhat crazy, you're probably not gonna have much fun.

Quick thread detour.

 

What is the general consensus on Slovak women? For Eastern Europeans, are they madder than Mad Jack MacMad of Mad street, Madville on sea or placid?

 

 

Quick thread detour.

 

What is the general consensus on Slovak women? For Eastern Europeans, are they madder than Mad Jack MacMad of Mad street, Madville on sea or placid?

they like money, thats for sure. If you have it, they love you long time.